Elderly Abuse Is At Epidemic Proportions In This Country.. We All Need To Be Better Educated!



Posted: Wednesday, March 04, 2009

by MJNewell

Our elderly are surely the most vulnerable of our society. When they become ill, or terminal they have to rely on others to care for them. They are often subjected to a wide range of abuse, mental, physical, financial and often are too debilitated or scared to tell anyone what is happening to them. Or they just may not want their son/daughter/grandchild exposed for their atrocious behavior. They even may feel responsible.

The web sites listed can help educate , inform and maybe bring this to light. If those that know what is happening or has happened do nothing, they are as guilty as the perpetrator. Wake up America!

Elderly abuse and child abuse are sides of the same coin and both need to be exposed.....http://www.maine.gov/dhhs/ oes/bhcoa/FinalReport-Elde r_Abuse.pdf SIGNS OF FINANCIAL ABUSE OF ELDERLY It's been said many times that older people are frequent targets of financial scams aimed at bilking them out of their life savings. The most common scams aimed at the elderly are charities, investments, and home repair.

When someone is slowing down mentally; is recently widowed and whose spouse handled the finances; is physically, emotionally, and psychologically dependent on someone; or lives alone and has few friends; he or she may be susceptible to a lesser known crime -- financial abuse of the elderly. As our population ages, this problem will rapidly affect even greater numbers.

Financial abuse is the theft or conversion of money or other property by caregivers, relatives, or other people the person trusts. Fina ncial abuse can take many forms. For instance, title to the older person's home or other assets is transferred to the abuser and then sold. Funds from checking, savings, and investment accounts are withdrawn without authorization. Wills are changed through intimidation. Loans are taken out and the funds given to the abuser. Checks are signed over to the abuser, who cashes them.

Even outright theft of property may occur.

The National Institute on Financial Issues and Services for Elders, a Unit of the National Council on the Aging, says to watch for these signs of financial abuse:

The elderly person's living conditions are well below his or her financial resources.

Unusual or inappropriate bank account activity is reported.

Frequent checks for cash are written to a caregiver or financial professional.

Bills go unpaid or are overdue when someone is supposed to be paying them.

The elderly person transfers title of his or her home or other assets for no apparent reason.

Large, frequent gifts are made to a caregiver.

The person is reluctant to talk about once-routine topics.

Personal belongings are missing.

Attempts are made by a caregiver, friend, or relative to isolate the person from others.

Changes are made in a will when the person appears to be incapacitated.

The older person takes out large, unexplained loans.

A live-in caregiver refuses to leave or is evasive about financial arrangements.

Often, the victim feels shame, especially when family members are involved, and consequently the crime goes unreported. However, steps can be taken to reduce the likelihood of financial abuse happening in the first place.

Limit the power of attorney. A power of attorney, a legal document authorizing a person to perform certain legal or financial acts on someone else's behalf, is used to rob a person's financial assets. Be sure the agent is someone who can be trusted.

Limit the powers the agent has under the power of attorney. A person can require the agent to provide an annual accounting of income and expenses to an outside party such as an attorney or financial planner.

Involve several people. Major financial decisions for the elderly should be made only after consulting several trusted people, such as relatives and financial professionals.

Have checks directly deposited. Direct deposit of Social Security checks, for example, reduces the opportunity for theft. However, the funds are still at risk if the abuser is a joint owner on the account.

Use automatic bill paying. Routine bills can be automatically paid for elders from a checking or savings account. Or a bill-paying service can be hired.

Communicate with the bank. Banks are often the first to see questionable financial activity and can alert the older person or a relative.

Hire a geriatric care manager. These professionals often monitor an older person's' complete care, including financial status, and can report any problems to relatives.

Check references. Anyone hired to provide care should be thoroughly screened.

Reduce isolation. Elderly people should be wary of a caregiver who tries to isolate them. It's tougher for a caregiver to commit fraud in a crowd, so the older person should keep in touch with friends and family members. If you live far away from a vulnerable relative, keep in contact with the relative's close friends, and neighbors.

By being aware of the signs of financial abuse and taking specific actions, the risks can be dramatically reduced or even prevented. If you suspect an elderly family member may be a victim of financial abuse, contact the Senior Info -Line at 800-451-8693
Mary Jane Newell has been writing for the last ten years or more. Many of her stories have been published online and in small magazines. Her stories are sometimes fraught with horror, but her poems are hilarious!
Mary Jane is also known to be a pitbull when she finds abuse of any kind, political, the elderly, children..animal!

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Top-level comments on this article: (4 total)
» left by Ronyae
3 years 66 days ago.
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MJ,
 
This is such a great article, and one which needs to be noticed, acknowledged and utilized. Thanks for sharing this with us.
» left by MJNewell 3 years 66 days ago.
4 fans.
We will all be elderly someday and hopefully we will not be one of these sad statistics..I know I am educating my children now...
» left by tedward
from Maine
3 years 66 days ago.
Most of us are aware but that is as far as it goes. Mary Jane takes it the extra mile. Thanks MJ.
» left by Susan Thom
3 years 66 days ago.
178 fans.
hi MJNewell,
 
this article had a lot of very important information in it.
 
i hope many people read it, and learn from it,
 
thank you for sharing,
 
best regards,
 
sue thom
» left by Mary Jane from Maine 3 years 66 days ago.
I hope so too.. It's a dirty secret that is too often shoved under the rug because no one wants to deal with it...
Thanks for reading it!
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